Crystals for Love: For Self-Love, Attracting Love and More
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Crystals for Love: For Self-Love, Attracting Love and More

We accept and extend love through the channel of our heart chakra. Ideally, this channel is a massive, six-lane highway with a free flow of love speeding in and out. But sometimes, there’s a crash. We get our hearts broken. When this happens, the flow of love comes to a screeching halt. The only way to clear up this block is to forgive and love ourselves. There are crystals available to help us heal our hearts, foster new love, and shift into more productive mindsets. Each crystal’s energy will affect every person differently. Depending on what has your heart chakra blocked up, you may need more rhodochrosite than malachite. To figure out what your heart is craving, read below for Heather Askinosie’s expert tips, and watch the full video to discover which crystals for love are calling to you.


What You’ll Learn with This Crystals for Love Video:

  • How to use rose quartz for self-love + forgiveness
  • Crystals to use for women over 40
  • Self-Love bathing ritual
  • Programing your crystal for love
  • Why you should be using a rose quartz mala necklace
  • How men can use malachite to attract love


Use Rose Quartz to Embrace Feminine Self-Love

Rose quartz has a reputation for being the stone of unconditional love. The soft, soothing energy that rose quartz emits, helps you to breathe easier just by looking at it. We all have male and female energy within us. For all the women out there who feel that the roles and responsibilities in their lives have drowned out their feminine energy, rose quartz is the perfect remedy. It gets you back in touch with your feminine side. The properties of compassion, forgiveness and self-appreciation that rose quartz infuses your heart chakra with can help you to shift out of negative mindsets, and embrace your true power.

Attract Love With Rose Quartz

If you read Crystal Muse, you know how significant rose quartz was to the Attract Love ritual. That’s because rose quartz is the ideal stone for inspiring a spectrum of loving energies, from self-love and passionate love to love for humanity. One aspect of the ritual in the book that I’ll recommend to everyone is having two rose quartz crystals for love together in your bedroom. This is a Feng Shui technique for love. It is meant to symbolize a loving partnership.

Another thing you can do before bed, is to take a piece of rose quartz in your hand, and rub it over your heart chakra while blessing yourself with loving thoughts. The most important relationship you have, is the one you maintain with yourself.

The Best Love Crystal for Women Over 40

For all the women over 40 who are looking to inspire fresh vibrancy into their love life, rhodochrosite is the stone for you. Whether you’re looking to find new love, or reignite the spark with a long-term partner, it’s the rhodochrosite meaning you’ll want to tap into. This crystal for love will help you to rediscover and heal the many layers of love within yourself.

The point of the healing journey with rhodochrosite is to go deeper in exploring your truth, and unleash parts of yourself that are begging to be free. Rhodochrosite guides the soul toward breakthroughs and conquering negative patterns, but in a way that remains gentle and supportive. The older we get, the more responsibilities we have. When others rely on us, it can be difficult to remember that we need to support ourselves just as much as we support those around us. Use rhodochrosite empower your self-worth. Let the black striations within this crystal for love remind you that nothing is perfect, but even the negatives can add definition and beauty to your story. Use rhodochrosite in combination with rose quartz, to let go of the past and radiate with confident self-worth and love.

Crystals for Love: For Self-Love, Attracting Love and More

Self-Love Bathing Ritual

Bring a rose quartz stone with you into the bath. This ritual is all about investing in your own wellness, so make it as lush as you can. Heather likes to include rose petals, himalayan salt rock and essential oils. She also lights candles and incense. Over her heart, she places a rose quartz stone. This creates a sacred space that allows you to rejuvenate the spirit as you soak in the energy of self-love.

Program Your Crystal for Love With a Purpose

Hold your crystal for love in your hands, and allow yourself a few moments to sync with its energy. The say aloud your intention for that crystal. For example, if you’re looking for your crystal to attract love, you can say: I program this crystal to vibrate with the bright energy of love. May it remind me that I am loved, I am filled with love, and I spread love to all I meet.

Why You Should Be Wearing a Rose Quartz Mala

Wearing rose quartz energy all the time allows you to stay in sync with loving energy you want to accept and emit throughout the day. Having rose quartz over your chest helps to constantly infuse your heart chakra with compassion, light, passion and forgiveness. When you feel yourself going into a dark, unloving place, you can get back in touch with the energy love by repeat a mantra for spreading positivity on each of the 108 rose quartz mala beads.

Best Crystal to Attract Love for Men

Malachite, known as the transformation stone, is a great crystal for men to use to attract love from outside as well as within. This crystal helps the spirit to recognize negative patterns and let go of the pain of the past. The movement that you see with the many swirling lines on this stone is conducive to the movement it beckons you to make in life. Connect with malachite healing benefits to progress along your spiritual path, and move beyond places of regret, sadness or a lack of fulfillment. Wear a malachite mala necklace to fuse your energy with malachite at all times. Malachite healing benefits will link with the heart chakra, and open you up to seeing the positive changes that you can make on a daily basis. As you open your soul to put out more love in the world, the universe will repay you by bringing more love your way.

The most important thing to remember as you begin working with crystals for love is to give yourself time to heal your soul. As much as we wish we could say that these crystals will bring you a soulmate, we can’t. However, when you work with these crystals for love to better embody the spirit of love, your life and outlook will shift. It’s this shift that expands your heart chakra, and makes your radiant passion undeniable to others. Embracing crystals for love simply reminds us to embrace life. When we do this, opportunities and people come our way.

Heather Askinosie
Heather Askinosie is a crystal expert and leading influencer on the power of crystals, Feng Shui and holistic healing. For nearly 30 years, she has been researching the scientific and spiritual aspects of energy. After studying with the best healers from all over the world, she has used the past three decades of her career to translate ancient wisdom into simple tools that anyone can use to transform their life. In 2000, she co-founded Energy Muse with business partner, Timmi Jandro. Energy Muse provides tools of empowerment and inspiration in the tangible form of jewelry and crystals. Her crystal teachings can be found in her book Crystal Muse: Everyday Rituals to Tune into the Real You as well as mindbodygreen, Well+Good, The Chalkboard Mag, and more. Learn more about Heather at

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